Coming up

It’s probably obvious that my writing patterns have changed a bit, since I was single and started this blog. I used to write 1-2 posts a week, often posting a new one on Saturday mornings. Now, I’ve been with Andrew for over a year, and I’m writing less. This is for a few reasons. Firstly,…

Off the grid

I’m sorry I haven’t posted for so long. First, I was having building work in my flat, which took over my life for a couple of weeks, then it was Christmas, and I didn’t have a spare minute to myself until New Years’ Day. On top of that, I’ve been feeling really down and found…

Out of the loop

Just a quick post to say I still have no internet (Virgin Media will getting a very strongly worded email from me!). So I’ve written less, and been less able to read other people’s posts! Obviously I can use my phone but I keep using up all my data and find it easier to write…

Whippersnapper’s phased return

I keep writing this post and then scrapping it and starting over. This is because I keep completely changing my mind about what I think. The last thing with Whippersnapper was that I told him I still loved him. He said he felt the same but still couldn’t be with anyone because of his body…

Whippersnapper 3

I went on a date with a third Whippersnapper. It wasn’t a raging success. I have an obscure song lyric on my dating profile and he sent me the next line of the song, which always makes a boy seem like a kindred spirit. (The song is ‘Graffiti’ by Maximo Park). We exchanged a few…

The Keratin Chastity Belt

I recently had my second date with the Bearded South African man (BSAM). We had discussed me going to his for dinner, but somehow that didn’t feel right yet. Partly from a stranger-danger point of view – he seemed lovely and normal on our first date, but something of a question mark from the early texts.…