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It really seemed like a suicide note (Part 3)

About a week after I met my ex, Alex, for dinner, for the first time in 5 years, he sent me a really long text message. He wrote that he was really struggling with the fact he can’t make any friends, and women never want a second date with him, and he asked if I…

August 12, 2018 in Alex, Exes, Psychology.

“The trouble with women, is that they judge you based on your personality.” (Part 2)

So, I was about to meet my ex, Alex, for dinner. I hadn’t seen him for 5 years. After getting changed into one of my favourite dresses, and putting my makeup on, I lay on my bed, drinking cough syrup from the bottle, waiting for him to arrive. Part of me didn’t believe we’d actually…

August 12, 2018 in Alex, Exes.

How I came to start 2013 by giving Alex a blowjob in a cupboard (Part 1)

A few weeks ago, I mentioned meeting up with an ex for dinner, and in my last post, I said I had to call the police, on the first day of my holiday. These two things are connected. I started out writing a post about it, but it was so long, I’ve broken it down…

August 12, 2018 in Alex, Exes.

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