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Monthly Archives: February 2019

A Disappointing Valentines Day

It’s been two weeks since I went back to my old house, which caught fire in 2012. I’ve felt absolutely shattered. It’s given me a new appreciation for how tiring it must be for my patients, confronting trauma. I’m still feeling quite on edge and unsettled. I keep thinking for a split second that things…

February 25, 2019 in Andrew, the World-weary Police detective, Dates, Love and relationships.

Returning to the scene of the crime

Last weekend was a very emotional one. It was the anniversary of the fire that killed my ex-boyfriend. I went back to our house for the first time since 2012. The first anniversary after the fire, in 2013, I went and stayed with my parents and felt miserable. After that, I was with Matthew for…

February 14, 2019 in Andrew, the World-weary Police detective, Balthazar, Death.

Talking about torture really perked me up

I’ve had my contraceptive implant taken out last week, and within a day and a half, I already felt so much better. As I wrote in a previous post, I decided to get it removed because of the effect it was having on my mood. It was a bit of a palaver to arrange. I…

February 6, 2019 in Andrew, the World-weary Police detective, Anecdotes about my vagina.

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