So, I was torn between the Great Scot and the Chilean Lecturer. In my last post, I described how I downgraded the Great Scot to just friends. I liked him better than anyone else but he didn’t seem able to give me what I need. Then there’s the Chilean. More stable, less vulnerable, less morose.…
The Great Scot has been officially decommissioned. The Chilean Lecturer is due for the same fate. When I was a teenager, I remember watching a lot of soap operas and reading romance novels; the take home message from them, plus my early romance experiences, was if you’re torn between two guys, the right answer is…
I had the most incredible experience the other day. It felt almost other-worldly. I feel like superwoman. I’m a Cognitive Behavioural therapist (CBT), but two weeks ago I started some training, to learn how to do a different type of therapy – Eye Movement Desensitisation and Re-processing (EMDR). It’s a different type of therapy for trauma. I…
Here are some updates – guys I wrote about who have come back out of the woodwork, or ones where I realised I never said how it ended. James This is the guy I was friends with in 2011. We slept together a few times and I think he quite liked me, but I had…
Arghhhhh I don’t think it’s going to work with the Great Scot. We had our 6th date this week. These are the preceding events: our 5th date started amazingly, but then went a bit weird we had a nice text chat the next day: then it got weird: “I can’t write it or say it…
Dater Analysis 